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All You Need: Discover this gripping Gay series and the social issues of the show HappyGayTV & You
"All You Need" is the captivating title of this 7th edition of HappyGayTV & You, the program of HappyGayTV, which covers various topics, all connected by the questions asked by our followers on the Hot-Line. First of all the HappyGayTV team, send a big thank you to all the contributors of this show, because we all need enriching and comforting messages! Because yes, it is important, your voice counts and your opinion is essential to create an inclusive and vibrant space on HappyGayTV. Now share your thoughts, questions and reactions by leaving an audio or video message via our internal messaging system: the Hot-Line. Express yourself on the subjects that interest you, whether it's HappyGayTV vidéos, this one or others, captivating films, inspiring books, or whatever interests you as a gay person. Your contribution enriches our community and helps to build an open and authentic dialogue. So join us today and make your voice heard with pride. Go to the Hot-Line and let yourself be guided, you'll see it's very simple, it's child's play! The whole HappyGayTV team is counting on you, thank you!
"All You Need": This is of course and above all the name of a German series that has generated real enthusiasm within our team. This article explores different facets of "All You Need" with a focus on the series, social issues, and the need to improve society.
All you Need: it's also the need to answer a question, admittedly a little ribald, not to say trivial, and which is whether there is a way to determine the size of the sex of a future cis-gender male partner, and in a very discreet way, without him even being able to notice it, quite simply, by observing a part of his anatomy, visible most of the time, such as his hands, and particularly the waist of his fingers. A response to a need, after all, quite legitimate!
All you Need: this is also the question I asked myself about little Lucas, who killed himself in January 2023, because he was harassed at school, because of his homosexuality. A subject that moved our followers, well beyond the French borders. And the question that bothers me about him is this: what did Lucas really need and who would have stopped him from taking action?
All you Need: it's also the need that most of our followers feel, to send us "happiness videos", via the Hot-Line, and God knows, if we don't really need it right now!
All you need: the series
All you need is the first LGBT series produced by the German channel ARD and directed by Benjamin Gutsche
It is broadcast in France on the Canal+ bouquet, pending a DVD release.
All you need is really in line with Queer as Folk, this series that we all adored in the 2000s, unlike its very last version which is unbearable, so much we are in clichés, quotas and stereotypes!
Here in All You Need, we understand the motivations, the brakes, the doubts and the needs of each of the characters, all served by excellent actors and dialogues, but also thanks to situations, after all, both as banal than original.
All you need: What is it?
This is the story of a very strong friendship between the character of Vince (Benito Bause) and that of Levo (Arash Marandi)
But, this friendship will be undermined by a somewhat unpredictable event, which neither of them really wanted and which will nevertheless explode in their faces!
Around this friendship gravitate Tom (Mads Hjulmand) who discovers his homosexuality only very late, and who will therefore make us discover the gay environment, the queer scene of Berlin and all its temptations.
Added to this is a very touching character, Robbie (Frédéric Brossier), whom Vince will meet, from the very first episode and for whom he will have a real crush.
But do we know who Robbie really is?
The All you need series will make us discover all these characters that we will see evolve and who will show us their flaws, their doubts, their mistakes, but also and above all their humanity!
Paradoxically, we could hate them all, but ultimately we love them!
And to complicate things, a new character, Simon (Ludwig Brix), will land in the second season, to again sow trouble in the already complicated relationships between our heroes.
All you need: to watch, that's why
The All you need series has the merit of showing the parallel between the problem of being black in a Berlin of the 2020s, and that of being gay! But also, to demonstrate that if our respective needs are sometimes in disagreement with those of our friends, or our lovers, thus creating numerous conflicts, the fact remains, and it is a paradox, that we yet needs them!
All you need: a very addictive series that deals with forgiveness, resilience and redemption...
Lucas' Needs!
For little Lucas, the fundamental question I ask myself is this: what did he need, and what did he lack, so that he ultimately decided to end his life!
Was it self-esteem, self-confidence, a protective classmate, a caring adult in high school, books, TV shows, LGBT movies, that could have helped him? to project yourself into the future, to find your way as gay, or even to follow the programs of HappyGayTV, where you try to show everyone that you can be gay and happy?
Reminders of the facts
The young Lucas, aged 13, killed himself on January 7, 2023 at his home in Golbey in the Vosges in France, because he was harassed in college, because of his homosexuality, as he had specified. in his diary.
This event moved all the French-speaking press.
The facts took place, from September 2022, to the beginning of January 2023, without anyone apparently intervening.
However, Lucas was part of a college that had put in place a system to actively fight against bullying, with the appointment of student ambassadors, supposed to warn adults in this type of situation. This is the "Phare device" (Lighthouse device)!
And for good reason, there are 700,000 harassed students in France, i.e. 1 to 3 students per class!
So why didn't this device work, in Lucas' case?
In fact, it is certainly the latest report from "SOS Homophobie", which can give us an element of the answer, since we learn that 26% of stalkers against gays are members of the management of the establishment, and that 21% are teachers...
It's chilling!
We can then very easily understand why our young ambassadors may not have dared to intervene!
It is the investigation that will shed light on what really happened.
Indeed, the prosecution has decided to file a complaint against X, for non-denunciation of ill-treatment of a minor.
For the moment, at the time of writing these lines, four minors have been summoned to the children's court of Épinal, to be tried there for school harassment, which led to the suicide of the victim.
Homophobia and school bullying: the need to change mentalities
As our followers, Nicolas from Belgium, who intervenes in this video, explains so well, thanks to the Hot-Line: "This tragedy shows that it is not enough to change the laws to change mentalities"!
And it's true that if we look closely, we are not close to achieving it!
As proof, we still wonder why some people do not measure the seriousness of their words, especially when we are an influential person, and who is authoritative for many people in the world. I am thinking in particular of the words of Pope Francis, who declared only a few days after the death of Lucas, on January 25, 2023 that homosexuality is a sin!
How can he not understand that saying this is likely to break the self-esteem of some young gays, in full construction of themselves, and worse to push some to suicide!
Ah what good living, since even the pope says, that I am a shit; forgive me the phrase!
And one wonders, to what extent, this type of statement can also comfort some adults, to bully young LGBTs in colleges and high schools, then feeling legitimate to do so, since even the Pope condemns gays!
Words that we really have a hard time accepting and understanding, it being specified that it has never been mentioned in the Gospels that Jesus Christ could have said anything against gays or trances!
In this video, we therefore pay tribute in our own way, to the memory of Lucas, well aware that this drama demonstrates how important it is to share HappyGayTV with as many people as possible, to change mentalities!
It may be a drop in the ocean, but isn't it true that small streams make great rivers?
And it is precisely for all these reasons that HappyGayTV was created, as Marco explains in this video, so that this kind of drama does not happen again!
So, now share this page, with this video by any means SMS, emails, social networks.. And don't forget to share this other video too: Growing up Gay, which is about a documentary, about LGBTQI+ bullying at school. We discover the career of Olly Alexander, the singer of the group Years & Years, and director of this opus, who himself had been harassed in England during his adolescence.
And if you ever wanted to intervene in our programs to make a comment, as John, Nicolas, Esteban and Juju did, use the Hot-Line, it's here, just let yourself be guided!
A natural need
Is there a way to determine the size of the penis of a future cis-gender male partner without him even realizing it?
A somewhat ribald question, not to say trivial, but which responds to a very real need among gays, especially for all those who are looking for the ideal partner and for whom this anatomical detail is of paramount importance!
Because indeed, Korean scientists have really looked into the question, and have demonstrated that there is indeed a correlation between the size of the hands and more particularly that of the fingers and the size of the penis, but also that if the index finger is smaller than the little finger, so there's a good chance that a nice surprise awaits you, in your future partner's panties!
As promised by Marco in this video, here are several articles that address this issue:
- Men'sHealth
- LiveScience
- DailyMail : who also tells us that the size of the nose would also be very important!
👉 So, as Juju said so well in this video: "On your meters, on your rules and forward for the measurements"! But also, and above all, forward for your** comments** on the Hot-Line, concerning this highly metaphysical question!
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Show transcript
Do you know what sets HappyGayTV apart from all other gay channels? Well, simply put HappyGayTV, is not my own channel, but rather the channel of all its followers, meaning your channel! And this, thanks to a tool that we have developed especially for this purpose, and that the whole team is very, very proud of: the Hot-Line,
The Hot-Line, is what allows you to send us an audio message, or a video message, on the topic of your choice, by simply visiting the website HappyGayTV. com. Hello my little ones! Hello to all! So now, here are, your last messages left on our servers, on the Hot-Line. Without further ado, let's start the HappyGayTV & You
7th edition On the agenda today, we will talk about Lucas, a French teenager thirteen years old, who took his own life, as he was being harassed at school, because of his homosexuality. An event that moves many of our followers, even beyond the French frontiers. A bit more trivial and lighter, we'll try to find out if there is a link,
between the size of the hand, and more specifically the size of some of our fingers, compared to the size of what we, guys, have in our underwear! Yes, we dared to do it! We will also talk about a show that I loved and it's called : "All You need," everything you need. And then of course, for starters as it's always the case with HappyGayTV,
a happy video, both funny and surprising at the same time. Hello Marco! I'm so happy to talk with you. So here, I’m in New York, in New York, today. And can you see, can you see there, the beautiful Statue of Liberty? And so today, it's so, so, so cold. You just can't imagine in New York. Oh, my God, it's so cold.
So I do some some exercise at the moment. That's, that's why I'm moving a little bit. I'm sorry, I'm sorry for the for the viewers. But, I just want to say about something about your, your show. Yes, your show is so good. You are so good. Yeah. How can you do that? Yeah. I know that you are good in radio, but for the TV... Ooh la la, my God! It's so, so good and… what you say is very interesting. Yeah !
It's very interesting. I heard about the flags The flags. So many flags! I can't imagine that there are, flags like this. I can't imagine! LGB… everybody has got his flags! Unbelievable! So, yeah, it's very interesting. Of course, you talk about bad news. It's very hard for LGBT today, so you have to keep the fight. We are with you. We follow you. I will follow you. So thank you.
I will, I will see what happened next, next show. Your next show. I hope it will be soon. So, so bye, bye from here. So happy to talk with you, and see you guys! See you guys! John, thank you, this is excellent! And I'll even share a secret with you, when we first saw your video on our servers, we were quite surprised and even a bit scared! Indeed,
it displayed a very small thumbnail and since you were in low light, we thought, because of the way you're dressed, that you were... A Taliban! Yes, a Taliban who had filmed himself! Yes, you know, a nice Taliban who would tell us : "Hello friends, I'm watching you from Kabul, I love what you do, because I am a nice Taliban. I can't do anything other than to be a taliban because otherwise I risk
having big problems here, in my country. But congratulations HappyGayTV, keep it up! I love what you are doing! Well no! It could have been funny, even quite surprising. But too bad, it was just you, John, all wrapped up in your winter clothes. That said, it really felt like it was very cold! John, thank you for your encouraging video, filmed in extreme conditions as we can all see. Well, except that I have my doubts whether it has been
filmed in New York, as you claim. A bit of fake news actually. But, we only took it for a a good joke! Knowing a bit about locations, and how the statue of Liberty is positioned relatively to you, if you were in New York, I believe you would be, not walking, but actually swimming. Unless you are blessed with the same strengths as Jesus Christ, hat is, being able to walk on water! On the other hand, what is not fake in your video
and where I see that you are very well informed, is when you say that I've worked as a radio broadcaster. Yes! Yes, indeed, I started my professional career, with some success on the FM band in France. And now as you say, I've moved on to video. So thank you too, for your compliments about the video we made regarding the different flags of the LGBTQI+ community. And by the way, speaking of which John,
I would have liked to know something about you and your profile: Are you a flexible hetero or more a latex gay fan? Anyway, if you liked this video about the flags, My guess is that Juju's topic about the size of the hand's fingers, compared to that of the boys' reproductive system, will get you all fired up! So, watch this video until the end, and see you soon with Juju's question, in a few moments.
By the way, here's a cool thing you have to do right away: join us right now in this beautiful adventure that is HappyGayTV. Subscribe now, to the HappyGayTV Club! It's free, and many surprises are already waiting for you, and more are coming soon. As you can see on the right side of the screen, you can access it in three different ways. It's very simple and intuitive and that's how
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Hi Marco, Hi Roselyne, Hi HappygayTV viewers! This is Nico and today this quick message, is to share my sadness and my anger about the drama that led Lucas, 13 years old, to make the decision of putting an end to his life, to deal with school harassment of which he was a victim, a situation that he couldn't bear anymore. And the reason being, his homosexuality! How can anyone oppress to such an extent, a "classmate",
for the simple fact of loving differently? These tragedies prove that it is not enough to fix legislations, in order to change mentalities, because mutual respect despite differences, as well as love, for that matter, can't be imposed. Even though, it should be quite obvious! I think a lot about all those little Lucas who have to grow each day, in this environment,
at times extremely cruel : being an adolescent in the 2020s. Well, we apologize for this little moment of sadness, but I wanted to share this with you! Have a great day. Hello, this is Esteban from Albi. I wanted to say that I was also very moved by the story and the suicide of young Lucas. I myself was harassed for the same reasons as him, at school, in the early 80's,
from the age of eleven, to when I was fourteen. And other than my mother, at that time, no one else had supported me. Lucas had the unconditional support from his parents, but sadly, it wasn't enough. Other than that, I'm not part of the National Education Department, but I recently learned that in some primary schools, a bench was provided for the children who felt isolated and wanted
to make friends, to sit on. And as much as we need to do something about this situation from a very young age, this might be a great idea, as early as primary school, or even kindergarten, I believe... Thank you Nicolas and Esteban for your touching contribution! For all those who don't know about this, young Lucas, thirteen years old, took his own life on 7 January 2023, at his home in Golbey, in the Vosges in France, because he was harassed,
for being gay, according to his personal diary. This incident shook the entire French-speaking media. The events took place from September 2022, to the beginning of January 2023, and seemingly without anyone taking any action! However, Lucas was part of a secondary school that had implemented, a system which allows to tackle actively harassment,
through the appointment of student ambassadors, to caution adults in such situations It's the so-called "Phare" system. (Light house system) And the reason for this is that there are 700,000 students harassed in France, that's 1 to 3 students per class! So why didn't this system work in Lucas' case? Well, this is certainly the last report of "SOS Homophobie " that can provide us with a part of the answer,
since we are told that 26% of the anti-gay harassers are members of the school board, and that 21% of them are teachers! It's a bit frightening! We can then very easily understand why, our young ambassadors perhaps did not dare to intervene. It is the investigation that will shed light on what really happened. As a matter of fact, the prosecutor's office,
decided to file a complaint against X, for non-reporting of child abuse. For the time being, at the time of recording these shots, four minors have been summoned before the juvenile court in Épinal, to be brought to trial, for school bullying, leading to the suicide of the victim. Esteban, when listening to your testimony, we realise just how much, it is already difficult to build yourself up
when you're a teenager and especially when you're gay! We still wonder why some people don't take into account the consequences of what they say, especially when you're an influential and authoritative person for many people in the world. I am thinking in particular of what Pope Francis said, only a few days after Lucas' death, on January 25, 2023, that homosexuality is a sin!
How can he not understand that these words could eventually destroy one's self-esteem especially young homosexuals, who are in the process of building themselves and worse, to push some of them to suicide? What's the point of living, when even the pope says I'm a piece of shit! Pardon the expression! And I even wonder, how much, these words can also lead some adults,
to bully young gays in secondary schools, feeling entitled to do so since even, the pope has condemned gay people! Words that I find really hard to to accept and understand, and it is clear that it was never mentioned, in the Gospels, that Jesus-Christ could have said anything, to the detriment of gays or trans people. And as you said so well, Nicolas, it's not the laws that go change mentalities.
All the more reason, when you hear this last statement of the Supreme Pontiff. That's why I created HappyGayTV, so that our shows and our videos will be shared as widely as possible, for the purpose of changing mentalities and to prove that there is no reason to feel ashamed, guilty or responsible, or even sinful, for being gay! That's why I invite you to share this video by all means,
in order to help change mentalities for the good of all of us. So share it, right now on social media, via email or SMS. Seriously do it, it's very important! Other than that, Nicolas and Estéban, I would like to know how did you eventually, both of ou developed yourselves, at a time, when there was much less talkabout these issues.
Anyway, Esteban, your testimony shows us, that if you are still among us today, we are not psychologically equal, when faced with homophobia and harassment that it may cause. And forgive me for taking a lot of time today on this matter. Simply because this topic is very much close to my heart. But at the risk of repeating myself, it's exactly for all these reasons that I created HappyGayTV,
so that this kind of drama never happen again! And you know what? To make sure I never forget, myself, like you who is watching us, HappyGayTV's reason for existence, I decided to include into our set, a picture of little Lucas, as a reminder to never forget, how much, our community can be stigmatized and the disastrous consequences of such
actions. Here it is, the picture is right here.
All right, let's leave it here for now, so that no one ever forget what happened. After all, as Robert Hébrard said so well it is by sharing one's hardships that one can rebuild himself. That's why it's important, in fact it's essential, to share our videos, by all means: email, SMS, social media to as many people as possible. I'm repeating myself, but this is important
and above all to share our experiences and our solutions on the Hot-Line. It was created for that very purpose! Do it, thank you. In memory of Lucas and in memory of all hose who have preceded him, so that this never happens ever again! Never ever again!
Hello Marco, hello everyone, A quick personal reflection somewhat saucy for today. In a sentimental relationship, the most important thing in my opinion, is the personality of the other person. The similarities and the points we have in common, his sensitivity, his qualities, and sometimes even his flaws or some of them. But when you end up on the bed, under the blanket, or elsewhere for some others, whether it's in a couple relationship,
or for a one-night stand or two-night stand, and whatever you say, size matters! This may not be the most important thing, like for example knowing how to use it correctly! But it does count! Other than that, it's not that big of a deal which keeps popping up regularly. Hence the question: sex size is it proportional to that of the other organs? So, we often hear about the size of the hands!
In fact, maybe that's why it seems, that a lot of women are sensitive to it, maybe even more unconsciously! So, of course, several studies have been been conducted on this topic. The results are somewhat unexpected! Indeed, there is kind of a connection with the hand, and more specifically with the size of the fingers, and also with the space between the fingers. These studies concluded that, on average,
the length of the index finger, would be correlated to that of your genitals! Moreover, men with index fingers smaller than their ring finger, on average, I mean, would have, a tad larger organ than those, whose sizes of these two fingers are practically the same. Amazing, isn't it? And you, do you believe it? So, guys, grab your rulers, your meters. And let's start measuring! Juju, your intervention is very funny,
trivial, but still scientifically interesting! Because it appears that what you tell us, is actually well and truly proven! However, as you can see Juju, I put on my mittens, because I don't want to make any claims and especially, I don't want you to have the slightest information about my anatomy! For indeed,
scientists actually looked closely at this subject and found that if the index is more smaller than the pinky, with this combination, you're in for a nice surprise waiting for you, in your partner's pants! Which would not be the case with this combination, or with this one. However, you will see that this study does not provide any information about the thickness of the thing, because if it's long, but as thick as my little finger, well, okay,
you get the idea... Is it really interesting? Well, let's leave it at that, because we are with Lucas who's watching out for the proper course of the show. So, since this is supposed to be a show after all a prime time show, I just wanted to let you know that if you want approfondir le sujet, tu trouveras tous les détails, in the link here,
in the text below of the video on the HappyGayTV.com website! Moral of the story, from now on, we all have to be gallant, like our ancestors used to, and start kissing hands, when flirting with someone! Anyway Juju, your intervention was very funny and very creative, if not entertaining.
My little ones, I really enjoyed this series! And I really wanted to tell you about it. So it's about the German series All You Need: by Benjamin Gutsche. For me, this series is as good as Queer as Folk, that we all loved and enjoyed, in the 2000s, unlike its latest latest version,
which I found quite annoying, so full of cliché, quotas and stereotypes. With this series, in All You Need, we understand the motivations, the obstacles, lthe doubts of each of the characters, with excellent acting and great dialogues, but also through situations, altogether, both banal and original. So, what is it about? It's about a very strong friendship, between two characters: Vince and Levo.
But this friendship will be put to the test, by a somewhat unpredictable event, that neither of them really expected, and yet is going to blow up in their faces. So, around this friendship, revolves Tom, who finds out about his homosexuality very late in his life and who will introduce us to the gay community, the queer scene in Berlin and all these different temptations. In addition, a very endearing character, Robbie, who will get to meet Vince at the very
first episode and will definitely have a real crush on him. But do we know who Robbie really is? And so, all these characters will grow and we'll uncover their weaknesses, their doubts, their mistakes, but also and most importantly their humanity. Paradoxically, we could hate them all, but in the end, we just love them! The series has notably the credit of drawing a parallel between the struggle of being black
in a Berlin in the 2020s, and the one of being gay. It appears that the third season is already in the making, but nothing is really certain. I've only read about it on one website, but it's not really confirmed yet. And I really hope that there will be a season three, as season two, ends with a cliffhanger which for one of the characters, may lead to serious implications and suggests a somewhat complicated future for him.
To sum up, in my opinion, a beautiful piece of work on forgiveness, resilience and redemption. Just a small downside though, if you don't speak German, the series is not dubbed in French, so you'll have to settle for the subtitles. So, All you need, a must see if you can on the Canal+ package, awaiting a DVD release very soon, hopefully! That's it my little ones,
I didn't want to finish this episode, without paying tribute to Daniel DEFERT, a true incarnation of the battle against AIDS, the one who founded and then became president of the association AIDES, from 1984 to 1991, and who recently passed away on February 7, 2023, at the age of 85. He was the companion of the great philosopher Michel Foucault. So, kudos to you, sir, for your courage and your determination.
There you go my little ones, we'll leave it at that for today. Now it's your turn to send us to send us your messages, in audio or video through the Hot-Line. Trust me, it's as simple as leaving a message on an answering machine, or making a video phone call. Besides, if you take a good look at the videos on the Hot-Line section, you'll find out, hat everything is very well explained with tutorials and more
it's totally intuitive! So go ahead, and let yourself go! The whole team is waiting for your messages with impatience, in order to plan a new episode for you. See you soon then, on our servers, and see you soon for new adventures, all together! On that note, my little Loulous, I'll see you soon, prenez bien soin de vous. Ciao, ciao !











